How to Choose the Best Dildo according to Dildo Experts

how to choose the best dildo
How to choose the best dildo

Introduction

Buying a dildo in Kenya is easy but how to choose the best dildo can be challenging if you are new to sex toys.

About 80% of the Kenyan women purchasing dildos in Kenya are new to sex toys. And one question they ask when buying a dildo is, “Which dildo is the best dildo?”

Dildos are the most popular sex toys in Kenya because of their resemblance to a man’s penis. You play with them by stroking your vagina, or anus enjoying the penetration pleasure and sexual stimulation they provide. You can play with dildos solo or with your partner.

In this guide, I will share with you tips to guide you how to choose the best dildo for yourself, or partner, for maximum fun and pleasure.

Tips on How to Choose the Best Dildo

Here are the two (2) important tips to guide on how to you choose the best dildo: 

  1. What is fun and satisfying for you, and
  2. Features of the dildo that match your needs to enhance the pleasure you receive.

By following these two tips on how to choose the best dildo, you are guaranteed to buy yourself a dildo that will offer you the best experience every time you play with it.

Now, let me explain these tips in detail.

1. What is fun & satisfying for you?

Women have different vagina penetration desires and needs 

  1. How deep do you want penetration? This will help you choose the length of your dildo.
  2. How much rubbing  inside your vagina do you want? This will help you decide on how wide you want the dildo.

Knowing these two personal preferences helps you match your liking to the type of dildo that will be best for you.

NB: For reference, the average Kenyan man’s penis length is 5.5 inches long with a diameter of 1.6 inches (5 inches circumference).

Knowing how deep you want the penetration to go and how wide you want the dildo to be, let me take you through various features the dildo could have and how these features enhance your fun and pleasure. 

parts of a dildo
Parts of a dildo

2. Features of the dildo and how they enhance your pleasure

Here are 4 main features to look for when choosing a dildo:

  • Length of the dildo: This is the most important feature. The longer the dildo, the deeper the penetration. Get a dildo with the right length for your preferred penetration depth. 
  • Width of the dildo: This is the diameter of the dildo. The wider the diameter of the dildo, the more rubbing you feel in your vagina when stroking it with the dildo.
  • Shape of the shaft: The shaft of the dildo can be straight or slightly curved.
  • Texture of the shaft: The texture can either be smooth or ribbed (mostly with veins). A veiny shaft enhances the pleasure on your vagina walls during stroking. 

More features that enhance fun and pleasure when playing with a dildo:

  • Vibration: Vibrations provide sweet tingling sensations in your vagina that enhance the intensity of orgasms. Click here to see our best vibrating dildo
  • Shape & colour: Majority of the women buying dildos in Kenya prefer a dildo with realistic shape (head, shaft, scrotum/balls) and African-like colour. However, different dildo shapes and colours are available. 
  • Realistic feel: A realistic texture gives you a lifelike feel in you vagina helping you enjoy more as you stroke your with the dildo.
  • Suction cup: This lets you enjoy handsfree play and experience different positions by allowing you attach the dildo on a flat & hard surface. It is located at the base of the dildo. Not all dildos have a suction cup. 
  • Thrusting function: This function imitates the stroking motion by thrusting the shaft of the dildo in & out of your vagina removing the need for you stroking your vagina. See our best thrusting dildo
  • Heating: For a more comfortable and pleasant feeling inside your vagina, some dildos get warm.
  • Waterproof or not: A waterproof dildo allows you to play with it in the shower, bath tub, jacuzzi, or pool.
  • Rechargeable or battery operated: Which is the most convenient for you, a dildo that’s rechargeable or batteries?
  • Wireless or wired remote controller: If your dildo has vibration,  the controller to control the vibration and other features of the dildo is either attached to the dildo itself, wired, or wireless.
  • Material of the dildo: Choose a dildo whose material is safe on skin, contains no allergens and is easy to clean e.g. silicone, cyberskin rubber etc.

Now that you know how to choose the best dildo for yourself, click here to buy your dildo from this collection I recommend of the best dildos in Kenya.

PS:

Before purchasing the dildo, read verified reviews from people who purchased & used it. Hear what other women are saying about it: what they like, or hate about it. A reputable online sex toy store should have verified reviews.

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